Definition of premature ejaculation
In the literature, "premature ejaculation is cited as" the most common among male sexual dysfunctions ", a problem found among men of all socio-economic levels: so much" that for some authors, ejaculatory precocity can be defined as a sort of "democratic sexual dysfunction".
But that's not all: premature ejaculation is not only the most frequent sexual dysfunction in the male world, but also the most difficult to decipher in medical-scientific terms. at the same time very complex to define in the most correct terms: some describe it as a real illness, physical and psychological, which inevitably affects the intimacy with the partner, generating embarrassing situations.In "premature ejaculation" the man is unable to maintain a certain self-control voluntary on his own ejaculatory reflex: this is a very serious problem for the stronger sex, since, having reached orgasm after a brief sexual arousal, the man is no longer able to satisfy his woman.
Incidence
L"ejaculatio praecox, a Latin translation of premature ejaculation, represents a very common condition in the male sphere. In fact, it is estimated that approximately 25-40% of men suffer from this unpleasant disorder. In other words, approximately one in three men complain of premature ejaculation problems.
Premature ejaculation during puberty
Puberty represents a particularly delicate moment, a transition phase in which the boy becomes a man. This transformation is gradual, progressive, certainly not immediate: in similar situations, the mechanism that regulates sperm production is not yet fully functional and established. In this regard, the very first ejaculations could occur without any sperm leaking or, again, the ejaculation could happen during the night (nocturnal pollution).
Precisely for this reason, it would not be entirely correct to speak of premature ejaculation in those boys who have just crossed the limit of childhood.
How to establish the disorder
Given the high rate of incidence of the disorder, premature ejaculation is the object of study for many authors: unfortunately, however, it is rather complex to accurately trace the clinical criteria that perfectly frame the disorder. In other words, it is very clear the way in which premature ejaculation occurs, but it is not so immediate and objective the exact moment in which ejaculatory precocity can be considered.
Some authors frame premature ejaculation in terms of thrusts, which express the coital movements useful for reaching orgasm; for other authors, "premature ejaculation must" be established by considering the time between vaginal penetration and ejaculation. Objectively, however, neither the temporal parameters nor the number of coital movements seem to be useful clinical criteria for establishing, in an objective and detached way, ejaculatory precocity, as the psychological factors that regulate everything are not considered [taken from http://www.eiacolazioneprecoce.org/].
Despite what has been said, some authors define premature ejaculation when the male orgasm ends within 30 seconds of vaginal penetration. Others, however, venture a "different theory, according to which the" man can be defined as "suffering from premature ejaculation" when he reaches the orgasmic frenzy before the woman, regardless of the "duration". This latter theory should not be underestimated, considering that the man reaches orgasm earlier than the woman in 50% of cases.
In conclusion, probably none of these theories could be considered really valid for framing the disorder of premature ejaculation: some men pass the so-called "ejaculatory point of no return" already during the preliminary phase, therefore before the actual penetration; for do not talk about those men who already ejaculate at the sight of their partner in intimate attitudes.
From these concepts it is clear that it is not possible to outline an objective timing regarding premature ejaculation: it would therefore be wrong to establish the "right" times to complete a relationship, since this should always be spontaneous, as well as separated from rules and "stakes". therefore it is obvious that, by setting preambles or preliminary conditions, man can be conditioned in a negative sense: in sexuality there should be no precise patterns, otherwise there is the risk of both consuming the relationship mechanically and stumbling upon unpleasant misunderstandings such as, for example, premature ejaculation given by the desire to follow precise pre-established rules.
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